I could foretell that there must be a compare between two object. But when it all happens to two children, the compare make it unbearable.
So, it happened when I met my mom's friend's daughter. She came to U.S three years earlier than me. She knows exactly what to say to contradict adult and make them laugh. I personally like her a lot, too. But the silent comparision made by my mom between her and me drove me crazy. Besides, the good Chinese culture to praise other's child made it worse much more!
I know it's not her fault. However, I got a lesson from it. Don't ever make comparision between my child with other's at least not express it.
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